I have been trying hard to train the family to help out around the house. I’ve been trying to do this for over twenty years! Sometimes I start to wonder if I’m beating my head against the wall. Seems as if I’m the only one that can tell if the dishes in the dishwasher are clean or dirty. (Hint – water in the bottom of the coffee cups indicate the dishwasher was run or not!) I get grossed out when I open a drawer or a kitchen cupboard to take out a clean dish, spoon, or cup and get one that was obviously NOT washed! One dirty spoon means that there are lots of dirty dishes and glasses and silverware in the cupboards! How can someone empty the entire dishwasher and not realize that the dishes are not clean? Very frustrating!